Getting Help for Your Child’s Mental Health: 19 Resources for Parents & Caregivers
Talking with kids and teens about mental health is important. Having a safe, judgement-free environment where they feel comfortable discussing their feelings can make all the difference.
To help create these spaces, stay connected with the people in your child’s life who have experience with addressing mental health concerns — pediatricians, teachers, school counselors, religious or spiritual leaders. These individuals can be your first point of contact when it comes to identifying and addressing changes in your child’s mental health.
Go-To Youth Mental Health Resources (Starting with Your Child’s Doctor)
If you have concerns about your child’s or teen’s mental health, reach out to their doctor first for a referral to a mental health professional who can offer targeted guidance and support.
If your child does not have a primary care doctor but is in need of mental health support, call 211 to ask if there is a mobile mental health crisis unit available in your area. Trained mental health professionals will come to where you are to provide a crisis assessment and next step recommendations. If a mobile unit is not available, they will direct you to the nearest emergency room.
In the case of a life-threatening situation involving your child, dial 911 immediately.
Here are some additional websites to check out for youth mental health resources:
- On Our Sleeves® The Movement for Children’s Mental Health: Find a list of organizations, resources and crisis hotlines in your region and state to help meet your young person’s specific mental health needs.
- National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI): Find treatment and services in your area; learn about signs, symptoms and statistics.
- Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA): Find treatment and services in your area; learn more about disorders.
- Mental Health America: Find treatment and services in your area; learn more about disorders and statistics; use mental health screening tools; learn about ways to maintain mental wellness.
- Mental Health FIRST AID: Find resources by topic, including general mental health resources, suicide, different mental health disorders, substance use, helplines and support groups.
- National Alliance for Children’s Grief (NACG): Find support in your area; access youth and family resources about grief.
- National Child Traumatic Stress Network: Find expert tips and guidance for talking with kids about traumatic events, whether personal, community or global. Find individual or organizational affiliates near you.
- CDC: Mental Health: Learn about mental health, data, disorders and find local or virtual support.
Mental Health Resources for Youth of Different Cultures and LGBTQ+ Identities
Young people with LGBTQ+ identities and/or from diverse cultures face unique challenges that can lead to mental health issues. These challenges can stem from identity, language barriers, discrimination and cultural differences.
It is essential to provide mental health resources that are culturally responsive and sensitive to address these challenges and reduce stigma. Mental health professionals who understand cultural backgrounds can provide appropriate support and help kids and teens feel comfortable seeking help.
Here are some mental health resources for LGBTQ+ youth and youth from diverse cultures to keep in your back pocket:
- The TREVOR Project: Provides mental health direct support, information, advocacy and education surrounding LGBTQ+ youth.
- Trans Lifeline: Provides peer emotional support and financial support to the trans community.
- Call 877-565-8860 (English, Spanish)
- We R Native: Supports Native teens and young adults focusing on mental health, community engagement and activism.
- Check out text message campaigns for care and support:
- Text “NATIVE” to 94449 for health tips and life advice.
- Text “CARING” to 65664 for feel-good, confidence-boosting messages.
- Text “BRAVE” to 94449 for wellness strategies and tips to get support from family and friends during tough times.
- Check out text message campaigns for care and support:
- Therapy for Latinx: Offers mental health screenings and culturally relevant resources to aid Latinx individuals with finding a therapist.
- Melanin & Mental Health: Connects individuals with culturally competent clinicians committed to serving the mental health needs of Black & Latinx/Hispanic communities.
- National Asian American Pacific Islander Mental Health Association: Promotes the mental health and well-being of the AANHPI community and connects individuals to culturally relevant resources.
Creating a Mental Health Emergency Plan with Your Child
It’s important to prepare your child or teen for a potential mental health crisis by working together to create a plan in case of emergency. One option is to visit a local emergency room or mental health crisis center if they experience suicidal thoughts. These facilities have trained professionals who can help ensure the safety of both you and your child. They will also collaborate with you to determine the optimal next steps to ensure that your child receives the appropriate care and support.
If at any point during your conversations your child shares that they have suicidal thoughts or intentions, your only priority is to keep them safe.
For immediate safety and life-threatening mental health concerns, call 911 and request a mental health trained officer.
If your child or teen is not in immediate danger but may benefit from speaking to a trained crisis professional, you can also direct them to these crisis prevention hotlines:
- Crisis Text Line: Serves anyone in any type of crisis by providing access to free, 24/7 text support.
- Text “HOME” or “HOLA” to 741741 (English, Spanish)
- Message 442-AYUDAME on WhatsApp
- https://www.crisistextline.org/text-us/
- 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: Offers free, confidential, 24/7 support to people in suicidal crisis or emotional distress and their loved ones across the U.S.
- Dial 988 to call, text or videophone (English, Spanish, Deaf or Hard of Hearing)
- Use online chat
- https://988lifeline.org
- The TREVOR Project: Call, text or online chat for free, confidential crisis prevention support for LGBTQ+ youth.
- Text “Start” to 678678 (available 7 days a week, (6 a.m.–1 a.m. ET/3 a.m.–10 p.m. PT)
- Call 866-488-7386 (available 24/7)
- https://www.thetrevorproject.org/get-help/
- SAMHSA National Helpline: Provides free, confidential 24/7 treatment referral and information services for individuals and families facing mental and/or substance use disorders.
- Call 800-662-4357 (English, Spanish)
- Text 435748 (HELP4U) to find help near you.
- Enter zip code to find treatment near you.
- Call or text 800-985-5990 for Disaster Distress Helpline.
- https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helpline
- RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline: Call for trained sexual assault hotline staff 24/7 for support with crisis intervention, empathetic listening and warm handoffs to local service providers.
- Call 800-656-4673 (English, Spanish)
- Use live chat
- https://www.rainn.org/consulting-services#hotline
- NAMI Teen & Young Adult Helpline: Connects youth with another young person who shares similar experiences and is prepared to offer free information, resources and support to those living with mental illness and their loved ones.
- Call 800-950-6264 or text “Friend” to 62640 (available Monday-Friday, 10 a.m.-10 p.m. ET)
- Email helpline@nami.org
- https://www.nami.org/Support-Education/NAMI-HelpLine/Teen-Young-and-Adult-HelpLine
- NAMI Teen & Young Adult Resource Directory
Supporting kids’ and teens’ emotional well-being has never been more important. Find more resources for talking to your child about mental health, noticing and addressing signs of stress in youth and more on Boys & Girls Clubs of America’s Mental Health homebase.
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